For anybody not a secret that our age is rapid. Perhaps that is why young parents, fearing to be late, hurry immediately after the birth of the baby to plan his future and solve the following problems: how old to sit with the child at home, whether to give him in a manger, whether to hire a nanny, what age do I have to invite specialists in early education of the child, which school to give to learn which universities will be worthy to receive the child after the end of the 11th grade. The above problems are not far-fetched, they have overcome almost all moms and dads, grandmothers and grandfathers. Solving them, it is difficult to consider many variables that make up our lives. All parents, trying to plan in advance and facilitate the child’s life, somehow believe that their child will be a genius: it will grow by leaps and bounds, possibly, will show musical ability, intellectual or artistic talent, brilliantly graduate…
However, everything in life, unfortunately, is much harder and more prosaic, and not always our dreams come true. But whatever it was, before almost all young parents face the question: to teach or not to teach the child? And most importantly, where to begin? A year, two, three?
There are many views on the problem of early child development: some Continue reading
Children should be loved and multiplied. Even the President of the country already is aware about the problem of the demographic situation.
To move this issue in the context of a particular family means to have a second, third, etc. child to not fail the people of the Russian land. However, when a child in one family, and the love of parents is directed at him fully. But if children, according to the call of instinct, the call of the President, and just love, becomes greater than one, the situation is changing.
I noticed several times the same picture: next door milf, middle-aged woman, accompanies her to school two twins boys for ten years at his brother. The boys really look the same. Hairstyles, height, shoes. Even the jackets are completely similar. Only one of them a woman kissing passionately, with love, smiles at him and whispers something in your ear. And here’s another – same externally – obyazivaet otherwise. Cool look, sluggish forced kiss, more like a faint touch of lips. Farewell type “Study hard!” said he haughtily, not whispering gently in the pink abalone, as the first child. From the difference in the attitude of a mother to his two children looks are striking, although the latter apparently stamped!
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Error modern parents – ‘s ambivalent attitude to the child, the lack of clear rules of parenting and permissiveness. Kids quickly learn how to manipulate parents and other relatives for the sake of obtaining the desired and allowed in the course of a variety of tricks: tears, tantrums, aggression, etc. as a result of improper training of the little monsters grow adults Infante, who will be for many years parents to use for their own benefit. Let’s see how well you nurture the baby. Perhaps he is already showing the traits needed and it is time to take urgent measures?
The child presents himself most of the time
You are busy all the time at work and time on the education does not remain. The child plays and sometimes doesn’t behave in the best way. Instead of curbing bad behavior – you give the kid whatever he wants for the sake of your own peace of mind. Thus, the child learns from an early age about proper manipulation of parental feelings. As a means of control parents he is likely to use tantrums and aggression.
Child – a family center
All the needs of your baby instantly ride, only the child to Express irritation. Grandparents, aunts and uncles – all are happy to serve the whims of the crumbs. Moreover, Continue reading