As you know, habits are good and bad. All good habits of children parents consider its merit, and in the poor blaming the street, friends and, of course, school. You can often hear as a mother complains that her son was a good, sweet boy, but I went to school not to learn: constantly arguing, with all the quarrels, trying to offend. Grieving moms in this situation it is clear – we want to see in their children only the best quality. The more a shame when you have these qualities we try to instill.
But is it so much to be frightened by bad habits?
First, any habit is basically a need. Therefore to fight it by prohibitions and punishments often simply impossible.
Secondly, bad habits parents often consider those that don’t like them. Actually, the division habits good and bad is very relative.
Adults understand that when it comes to their own “oddities”. But to children, we tend to be more demanding.
Thirdly, the emergence of habits and inclinations are largely due to their personalities and upbringing in early childhood, so “bad” example – though the streets, though the school – not so terrible for the one who thanks to the parents and immediate environment from infancy learned what Continue reading
All parents naturally want the child was smart, healthy, well-mannered, quiet. Just not everyone realizes that the child is basically trying to take their cue from their parents, trying to be like them and copy their model of behavior. The children receive from parents, not only those features that are transmitted genetically, but also a great influence on the formation of their character is the family education. Therefore, in the first place, to start nurturing with yourself.
To properly educate a child is difficult, and children, in this case, become adult the exam of life. The children are both advantages and disadvantages of their parents. But the disadvantages need to fight, and then in life get better. It will be very important to understand that only the weed itself grows, and cultural plant needs in work and love. How much time you need to invest in their children to grow up as worthy citizens.
The family influence on child rearing
The most important people in the life of the unborn child will be the people who raise him. Therefore, to learn the qualities of character he’ll be raising his family. The child will absorb the reactions and attitudes of their parents, to try to be loved and accepted by them. And it is the adoption of family and love will be initially, to nurture and to give Continue reading
Children should be loved and multiplied. Even the President of the country already is aware about the problem of the demographic situation.
To move this issue in the context of a particular family means to have a second, third, etc. child to not fail the people of the Russian land. However, when a child in one family, and the love of parents is directed at him fully. But if children, according to the call of instinct, the call of the President, and just love, becomes greater than one, the situation is changing.
I noticed several times the same picture: next door milf, middle-aged woman, accompanies her to school two twins boys for ten years at his brother. The boys really look the same. Hairstyles, height, shoes. Even the jackets are completely similar. Only one of them a woman kissing passionately, with love, smiles at him and whispers something in your ear. And here’s another – same externally – obyazivaet otherwise. Cool look, sluggish forced kiss, more like a faint touch of lips. Farewell type “Study hard!” said he haughtily, not whispering gently in the pink abalone, as the first child. From the difference in the attitude of a mother to his two children looks are striking, although the latter apparently stamped!
Probably almost every person, man or woman, Continue reading