Husband and wife: the Golden mean responsibilities

First of all, I want to note that marriage in Islam is a sacred and legal contract between a man and a woman, establishing the rule of law, sanctity and mutual responsibility of their family relationship, accepting each other as husband and wife, by mutual decision for the common life according to the teachings of Islam.

Both must be aware of their duty to God and responsible to each other in all aspects of their relationship. The main purpose of Muslim marriage act – the implementation of peace and mercy between the spouses, and to achieve this ultimate goal, there are certain rights and obligations of husband and wife.

When choosing a life partner, first and foremost, you need to be guided by piety, it includes: kindness and justice, compassion and love, sympathy and attention, patience and goodwill. That is the message of Holy Quran and Sunnah of our beloved prophet (peace and the mercy to him from Allah and His blessings). The prophet said: “the Best Muslim is the one who is best to his family.” In addition, he says, “. and the most blessed joy in life is a righteous wife.”

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The age of lovers

In the modern world looks at the relationship in the pair have become more democratic than ever before. And while most of the spouses are of the same generation (the age difference is 10 years or less), a little surprise for someone a big age difference couples.

This topic is of special interest to the public and is often discussed in the circle of psychologists, in magazines and on talk shows.

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A look into the past

Several centuries ago the ratio of steam from one generation and those who have age difference of 20 years or more, was the opposite of the current situation.

The norm was considered a marriage in which the husband could fit my wife with fathers or even grandfathers. Sometimes, the age difference is 30 years old!

To support a family was considered a great responsibility, so only after a man has lived a decent life, earned some equity and reputation in the society, he made the decision to marry. In this situation, the choice was in favor of young brides, can give birth to healthy children.

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Sex education for girls

Very often parents are wondering about what to tell children about sex education. In this article you will be able to find the answer to your questions on this topic.

During adolescence your child should know the basic information about:

1. the changes that occur during puberty in the body;

2. sexuality;

3. sexually transmitted diseases;

4. contraceptive methods;

5. the main and the first signs of pregnancy.

In addition, you should discuss with your child the theme of exaggerated and ostentatious sexiness, which offers pornographic products. You should explain to the child about Masturbation and what teenager does not necessarily demonstrate sexual activity with other people. Also need to discuss the topic of “perfect” shape and appearance, which promoted commercial advertising.

One of my friends got pregnant at young age and gave birth to a child. When he turned a year, she learned that she was pregnant again and is already in the fourth month. The girl came to me for advice, and I asked her how she could do such a thing. After all, she’s only giving birth to one child has already learned of her second pregnancy. At quite a late period.

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