As you know, habits are good and bad. All good habits of children parents consider its merit, and in the poor blaming the street, friends and, of course, school. You can often hear as a mother complains that her son was a good, sweet boy, but I went to school not to learn: constantly arguing, with all the quarrels, trying to offend. Grieving moms in this situation it is clear – we want to see in their children only the best quality. The more a shame when you have these qualities we try to instill.
But is it so much to be frightened by bad habits?
First, any habit is basically a need. Therefore to fight it by prohibitions and punishments often simply impossible.
Secondly, bad habits parents often consider those that don’t like them. Actually, the division habits good and bad is very relative.
Adults understand that when it comes to their own “oddities”. But to children, we tend to be more demanding.
Thirdly, the emergence of habits and inclinations are largely due to their personalities and upbringing in early childhood, so “bad” example – though the streets, though the school – not so terrible for the one who thanks to the parents and immediate environment from infancy learned what Continue reading
For anybody not a secret that our age is rapid. Perhaps that is why young parents, fearing to be late, hurry immediately after the birth of the baby to plan his future and solve the following problems: how old to sit with the child at home, whether to give him in a manger, whether to hire a nanny, what age do I have to invite specialists in early education of the child, which school to give to learn which universities will be worthy to receive the child after the end of the 11th grade. The above problems are not far-fetched, they have overcome almost all moms and dads, grandmothers and grandfathers. Solving them, it is difficult to consider many variables that make up our lives. All parents, trying to plan in advance and facilitate the child’s life, somehow believe that their child will be a genius: it will grow by leaps and bounds, possibly, will show musical ability, intellectual or artistic talent, brilliantly graduate…
However, everything in life, unfortunately, is much harder and more prosaic, and not always our dreams come true. But whatever it was, before almost all young parents face the question: to teach or not to teach the child? And most importantly, where to begin? A year, two, three?
There are many views on the problem of early child development: some Continue reading
Children should be loved and multiplied. Even the President of the country already is aware about the problem of the demographic situation.
To move this issue in the context of a particular family means to have a second, third, etc. child to not fail the people of the Russian land. However, when a child in one family, and the love of parents is directed at him fully. But if children, according to the call of instinct, the call of the President, and just love, becomes greater than one, the situation is changing.
I noticed several times the same picture: next door milf, middle-aged woman, accompanies her to school two twins boys for ten years at his brother. The boys really look the same. Hairstyles, height, shoes. Even the jackets are completely similar. Only one of them a woman kissing passionately, with love, smiles at him and whispers something in your ear. And here’s another – same externally – obyazivaet otherwise. Cool look, sluggish forced kiss, more like a faint touch of lips. Farewell type “Study hard!” said he haughtily, not whispering gently in the pink abalone, as the first child. From the difference in the attitude of a mother to his two children looks are striking, although the latter apparently stamped!
Probably almost every person, man or woman, Continue reading