The Education of boys and girls.
Very interesting notes read here. Have long thought on this subject. Even if you remove the separation on toys for male-jensie, according to the accurate attributes of behavior for boys-girly…

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Creating a situation of success in lessons for children with an individual trajectory of development
Elementary school has always been and remains the place and time of every person's life, from invisible threads which will run in all spheres of its future, and not only…

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Example of parents in the upbringing of the child
All parents naturally want the child was smart, healthy, well-mannered, quiet. Just not everyone realizes that the child is basically trying to take their cue from their parents, trying to…

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Kid stealing: entertainment or lifestyle?

For example, a child taking someone else’s toy, does so in accordance with their wishes. This spontaneous outburst: why not just take it without asking any thing and not to play – these are internal arguments of the baby. Children because of age is difficult to control those sudden emotions. But if the child is taking someone else’s thing, often not aware that thereby causes a damage to another person, an adult understands this. There is even such a point of view that stealing is a hidden form of aggression. Through the assignment of another man asserts itself, experiencing the pleasure of stealing from achieving some success.

Another reason that compels people to steal, is the desire for collecting, when you steal everything that is bad, and even those things that are naturally there.

Painful urge to steal is called kleptomania (Greek: “klepto” – kidnapped, “mania” madness). Continue reading

Sand war or children’s greed

So we graduated to playing in the sandbox. And, of course, faced with the very serious problem of joint games – the “sand war”. This is the problem child of greed.

In our yard the kids very much, and of different ages. So you have to deal with very different situations. Here we will talk today.

Let’s start with the question: “greed”

The issue of “child of greed” is beginning to worry the parents when their child is about 1.5 years.

During this period, the baby begins a new round of psychological development: an awareness of oneself as an independent person. Therefore, to talk about children’s greed, and even more so to call her baby “greedy” in this age it is still early. After all, the child learns to realize that he himself, and his personal belongings are untouchable.

And how parents behave at this age the baby will depend on who your child will grow: greedy, generous, or not able to refuse.

Psychologists have observed that a child whose parents were violently forced to share growing up:

* begin to act contrary to the actions of adults and become greedy in the slightest, guided by the principle of “yeah, I was banned, and now I’m a big, all can and won’t let nobody”

* can’t say no to others. After all, at a time Continue reading

Children screamers

“Alenka — good, good girl. But if something is not on it, it immediately begins to scream. This habit she had recently. What to do with it, I’ll never know?” “Three summer months the girl had grandparents in the village. Came back and started. Yells on occasion and without. Morning till evening, and hear her cries and lamentations. Why third put a spoonful of sugar when she asked two. She knows that I need to clean up their books. And all the shouting, screaming. People will listen, God knows what you will think!” The habit of screaming, arguing his innocence, is produced in children gradually. From day to day, from month to month they formed the belief that if they just ask, calmly state your requirements and wishes, it will not lead to the desired result.

Perhaps this belief arose because the adults are too long to impose upon the child his will. Perhaps, some of them quite successful in using this technique, that is, talking in a raised voice, not too restrained in the expression of emotions. The child is the same as a curved mirror that reflects what is happening in exaggerated form. He’s just a mimic us, and it seems Continue reading

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