As you know, habits are good and bad. All good habits of children parents consider its merit, and in the poor blaming the street, friends and, of course, school. You can often hear as a mother complains that her son was a good, sweet boy, but I went to school not to learn: constantly arguing, with all the quarrels, trying to offend. Grieving moms in this situation it is clear – we want to see in their children only the best quality. The more a shame when you have these qualities we try to instill.
But is it so much to be frightened by bad habits?
First, any habit is basically a need. Therefore to fight it by prohibitions and punishments often simply impossible.
Secondly, bad habits parents often consider those that don’t like them. Actually, the division habits good and bad is very relative.
Adults understand that when it comes to their own “oddities”. But to children, we tend to be more demanding.
Thirdly, the emergence of habits and inclinations are largely due to their personalities and upbringing in early childhood, so “bad” example – though the streets, though the school – not so terrible for the one who thanks to the parents and immediate environment from infancy learned what Continue reading
For anybody not a secret that our age is rapid. Perhaps that is why young parents, fearing to be late, hurry immediately after the birth of the baby to plan his future and solve the following problems: how old to sit with the child at home, whether to give him in a manger, whether to hire a nanny, what age do I have to invite specialists in early education of the child, which school to give to learn which universities will be worthy to receive the child after the end of the 11th grade. The above problems are not far-fetched, they have overcome almost all moms and dads, grandmothers and grandfathers. Solving them, it is difficult to consider many variables that make up our lives. All parents, trying to plan in advance and facilitate the child’s life, somehow believe that their child will be a genius: it will grow by leaps and bounds, possibly, will show musical ability, intellectual or artistic talent, brilliantly graduate…
However, everything in life, unfortunately, is much harder and more prosaic, and not always our dreams come true. But whatever it was, before almost all young parents face the question: to teach or not to teach the child? And most importantly, where to begin? A year, two, three?
There are many views on the problem of early child development: some Continue reading
Children’s fairy tale – this is much more than a fascinating story for kid. Through the tale, the child learns, learns to distinguish between good and evil, the imagination and the ability to empathize… the Role of tales in emotional and psychological development of the child – are enormous. Not so long ago appeared a new trend in psychology – therapy. Treatment of the tale helps children to cope with inner fears and insecurities, to become bolder and stronger. The therapy helps adults… The choice of a fairy tale that parents will read the child should be treated carefully, based on the age of the child, his psychological characteristics.
The role of fairy tales in the development of the baby
Usually parents start reading to children tales fairly early, when the baby is not yet able to understand the meaning of the story and he likes to listen to the pleasant voice of mom or dad. At an early age the baby is often distracted from the story, can’t concentrate for longer than a few minutes. But in three or four years the child becomes interested in the story itself, the description of the fairy-tale hero, the motives behind his actions. As every three to four years, the child enters the age of “the world”: it all interesting, all I want to know, taste, touch… At this time the main task of parents – Continue reading