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Parent remains the child after the divorce?

Dear friends! who faced or knows. after her divorce from Italian parent, the court leaves the child? automatically with his father, an Italian? or is it mother-nagradnoi Italy? A child is born in Italy, his Italian citizenship.

Natalia

Up to several years (8-9 years max) ago children left mother, I guess, in 99,99%.

In connection with the new policy of equal rights and opportunities, as well as changes in the social position of children began to leave in a divorce and fathers, of course in a rather small “dose”. Is also practiced and joint affidamento, i.e. 50/50.

Mother, if she wants to keep the child, should NOT be Kompromat. deeds, somehow, abbandono dei minori, “bad” behavior, the use of a substance. drugs. Not to let the ex-husband to think that she can take the child abroad. If you (or anyone out there) in this case, all the court does not suspect. there is nothing to fear. Money should be dad.

Eugene

I think Natalie knows about this problem solely by hearsay. I sued for child and for me to say,if the father is determined not to give the child,the chances of you much less than him.all hope These are a good lawyer and already mentioned on the dirt only to have his father.but here, too, it is important not to overdo it,otherwise you might attract the attention assistenza sociale,and these don’t get rid of ever and may even try to place the child in a shelter prior to a court decision (if he considers that the situation is too stressful for example).I have the original the decision of the judge for minors read:affidamento formale a padre,perchè sua posizione sociale i finanziaria piu stabile!i.e. because he is just a citizen and his income is higher my.

Marina

Eugene, I’m sorry that interested in the outcome of your trial?

Natalia

Yes, Eugene, fortunately, my reflections are strictly theoretical.

Eugene

after YEARS AND YEARS of courts,we withdrew their claims,because the end was not,but was a serious risk that social services will take the child,so to speak up to clarify. now we live together and for our son we are a family,although this is only the wrapper.but since none of us imagined to part with his son,this was the only possible solution.here is “sacrificio”!

Ludmila

(md) (md) (md)WELL, WELL. Eugene and until what time you will be “playing house” for the sake of the child. I represent Your state-GOD FORBID. And the child it belongs-or does not understand anything yet.

Julia

I would have done exactly the same as Eugene. And before you know and can agree on good, better than if you take away the child. -(

Catherine

hmm..a nightmare!recently on Russian TV showed a report about Irina Belenkaya.About how her husband a Frenchman kidnapped her daughter from Moscow,and after 2 years of trials by courts and bureaucrats,decided and answered him in the same coin,hired two gorillas good smuttily and took the baby back,now she is looking for Interpol. In this case, I am very sorry for their daughter. (tr)

Ludmila

Eugene ,well, move on. -( Because in Italy there is a law that the husband after the divorce must ensure that the financial position of the wife at the same level that was in her marriage with him (md).that there is a baby. Or he doesn’t haves. -O

Ludmila

Sorry did not finish. When what is citizenship? Or were you going to leave the country. -S

Julia

What if the wife is the child’s mother does not work. In that case, who the child will leave. -)

Ludmila

My divorce was long ago. but leave the mother ,of course. and he all the years until they grew up, they were held(giustamente). and wife had to contain to death as she never worked,but 6 years ago she died and why it ended. the children had grown up and graduated. don’t know my was like this :-S

Eugene

was not my intention to expose themselves to a universal judgment!sorry. my situation is not as tragic as it seems at first glance.we learned to be friends with the father of my child and now our relationship is much better than they were before the divorce.I guess this whole war was necessary to learn to appreciate and understand the main thing. I understand that if my life will be another man,things get complicated. so while my personal life has faded into the background.my son is 7 years old and up to age which his opinion may be taken into account by the court for another 5 years.but I hope that I never have to come back to this. realize how infantile my desire,that would be all settled by itself. but what can you do,hope!

Julia

Length,girls. Honored and frightened.We don’t have children,but marriage, he is going to adopt my daughter.I understand that so it is correct and to further her life and in General,because for her it is the most that neither is DAD.And of course I hope that never happens to me happen!But “man proposes,God disposes. ” How to foresee this situation,which would then not come to a critical?How to protect children from it,because they all understand. Nightmare!

But in any case, children suffer,so I think we should proceed from the interests of the child.Although it’s hard!Good luck to all and happiness to your children!

Oksana

Yeah. difficult is not the word.

But most often,children do not appreciate the sacrifices parents go. and live together for the kids. not always opradannoe.

It is difficult to talk about it being in another situation. but if all is well, it is better in advance not to bother. it is necessary to solve problems as they come)))