How to establish a relationship with the mother

Very often there are situations when two most people can’t find understanding. You need time to understand how to build relationships with my mother not to commit further mistakes.

Mom always remains the most close person, regardless of how old we are. But unfortunately the problems between us begin to manifest in childhood, continue to adolescence, and conflict-adult daughters and their mothers at all no surprise. To know how to establish a relationship with the mother, you need to understand how you formed your relationship.

Daughter and mother: what are the relationships

If you do not consider extreme cases in which the child with his mother really is unlucky, in most cases the mother is really a lot invested in the development and upbringing of his daughter. But in the end the relationship between them cannot be called, nor trust, nor friendly. From experience, there are several types of relationship mother – daughter.

Mother and daughter are best friends

In forming this type of relationship, the main role is played by the mother. These relationships are laid in childhood and carefully scooting through life and her mother and daughter. If the mother had time to consider in daughter Mature person, they will have a very good relationship. The daughter in this case is completely Continue reading

Frank conversation with the child

Statistically, parents talking to the child of preschool age with a maximum of 15 minutes a day, the rest of the time is spent on persuasion, threats, training new and other classes. The older the child becomes, the less time we spend on calls. In adolescence conversations sometimes are limited to 1-3 minutes per day. That is why this age, complex in itself, fraught with many a breakup and misunderstanding. Often a bridge by which a teenager trying to learn to communicate with their parents, become personal dramas.

To start chatting, or rather, to learn to communicate with your teenager is much more difficult than with a toddler. A Frank conversation with a teenager is not always possible, even if you do, you have established communication and child needs it.

I would like to notice that the conversation is limited to phrases like “How was school?”, “What’s new?” cannot be considered honest. Most often they are used to keep the conversation going when you are busy and can’t talk to the child.

But a conversation with a preschooler or a Junior in high school is much easier to build. This is why many psychologists recommend to start learning to communicate, to talk openly, to share positive and negative emotions experienced during the day or as a result of events that have Continue reading

Developmental activities in Dnipropetrovsk

The training is conducted in Russian or Ukrainian language (according to the customer).

We love our children, care for them and wish them all the best. And what they think about it? Here’s a real story, a real boy who visited our developmental activities in Dnepropetrovsk, retold his mother.

So, the first day in “EnglisHouse”

Hello! My name is Bogdan. Me 3 years, but soon-soon to be 4. Dad says I’m still a little, and without it does not allow to turn on the computer. And mom says I’m big, and I need to do.

One day my mother said we’re going TO DEVELOPMENT, and brought out of the closet with a shirt that we wear only, when we go to visit. I realized that the “DEVELOPMENT” is a very important place where you need to behave well and “not to shame parents”. Immediately became bored and wanted juice with cookies.

We came to the house, where there was a long, long hallway and lots of doors. I was approached by my aunt and said,

Hey! Let’s get acquainted. What’s your name?

I replied, but what’s the name of the aunt, do not remember. Mom helped me take off shoes and put on Slippers. At home! My aunt took me by the hand Continue reading

The Fabulous country, arrange children’s room

As a rule, together with news about the imminent addition to the family, parents ponder which room to allocate to the nursery. It is clear that it must be the most Sunny and bright room in the apartment. More questions arise with the design of the nursery.

It would seem that only yesterday you brought from the hospital your tiny happiness, carefully Packed in a delicate blanket and tied with satin ribbon. But behind the first step and first word. The kid grew up, and it is time to get rid of mobiles, rattles and rocking beds, and create new interior nursery, which will be comfortable to grow younger preschooler.


Nursery for children 3 years should be as functional. In fact this bedroom, and an arcade, and a lounge where you can watch favorite cartoon before bedtime, and creative Studio, and even sports. Specialists in interior design they say that children must be at least 3 zones: a place to sleep, play and creativity. Gluing “serious” Wallpaper & buy “adult” furniture room for growth – not the best idea. Children should be different from other rooms in the apartment, not a room – it’s fairyland, where the owner he is your baby.


For the nursery psychologists recommend the use of soft shades, from yellowish-green and yellow, to pale orange. If the window Continue reading

How to teach children and adults with autism to answer?

The ability to correctly answer “Yes” and “no” to the question — this is a very complex skill that includes various operations. In my experience, at first the child needs to learn Mande-reaction Yes/no [speech reactions that allow you to get what you want]. For example, the answer “Yes” or “no” to the question “do You want biscuits?” Only then you can try to teach the child the beat-reactions Yes/no [verbal reactions, which allow to obtain social promotion]. For example: “This bed?” And then intraverbal reactions Yes/no [verbal response that is called another voice response and encouraged socially, the conversation]. For example: “the Cow quacks?” It is best to begin with an assessment of how the child is able to answer Yes/no for each operation.

I worked very hard on teaching my son with autism and a few other children mandé-reactions Yes/no. Teaching a child to say “no” or shaking the head to indicate “no” you can start from an early age as alternatives to problem behavior, such as shouting and throwing objects. However, in order to start training the word “Yes”, you need to make sure that the child has a very important basic skills.

I recommend not to teach the child mandé-reaction “Yes”, until he learns Continue reading

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