Since the very young age, it is very important to teach a child to understand, to listen and to respect nature. We are all very fine, but strong thread tied to nature. Rupture of relations with nature leads to excessive urbanization – immersion only in the urban environment, to emptiness, to the misunderstanding of nature, to neglect her. As a result, the person does not receive from nature with much needed energy .
What is the difference between a man and a child? In principle no, but the child can be left alone with a babysitter.
If a child is engaged in nanny, then on her shoulders rests the duty is not just to walk with your child and teach the child to love and understand nature. Will see what we can recommend the nanny or parents – how to teach your child to love nature:
– Walk your child in the courtyard – use every opportunity to go with a child there where plenty of nature – in square, Park, forest. If possible – go with the child often on the nature .
There is nothing more hostile to the child than his mother. – Assuming further that any woman exactly is a mother first, we should recognize female infantilism a symptom of extreme degeneration. – Meanwhile, as the “ideal man” is only “eternal child”.
– Teach your child from the very young age to listen to the sounds: the rustle Continue reading
“My son is not very sociable, the group made friends with a boy who has problems with the neuroscience, behavior, probably some problem in the family. My child is now with him and plays, and with his old friends only communicates when it is not. And today the teacher drew my attention to a “bad” influence that each son when they are together, make sure you tear a class, he always persuades her son to all sorts of “nasties” that teaches “meanness”. I recently came before the walk, and my son and his friend are standing in front of the entrance to the toilet, pointing the finger at those who go on the potty, and laugh. A friend saw me first and stopped, embarrassed, and my son laughed on as if nothing strange is going on – he doesn’t even understand…
I have nothing against this boy, we all have problems, but I am concerned with the following issues:
1. Does this mean the propensity son to cravings for “bad companies”?
2. How should I behave? I understand that it is not correct to speak of what this bad boy, etc. I keep telling him that we must not forget his old friends, that you can play more fun and more enjoyable all together, etc.” (a question to the psychologist).
You’re absolutely right, prohibition of communication with the boy effect Continue reading
The value of age to grown-up child separated from a parent family . felt independent personality, and really turned into such. Separated energetically and informationally, and created for themselves their own conduct in life, their own rules of the game.
In reality, the separation on the physical plane may be only appearance, if problems with a parent (or someone who raised the child) has not been solved, not acceptance, not found their own solutions to similar situations in the future. In this case, an adult child already subconsciously uses in the life of the copied program parents, even if consciously protesting against it.
So if someone has an unresolved problem in their relationship with a parent – this problem trudges through life, the transfer is made on other people, mates. Man continues to subconsciously sort things out, until you forgive, accept and let go of the past. As a consequence, other people had made the transfer with “problem” parents, not perceived, and the relationship with them are not harmonious. If otnosheniya was not destroyed, you can restore them after the relationship with a parent, rabotodatel them together, and accepting your partner the way he is.
Examples from practical work.
While working with the theme of “No relations with men” with E. it was discovered a large mass-the Continue reading
Gradually in our country decreases the number of children in orphanages and boarding schools, through such forms of family, patronage, guardianship, adoption.
Here in our city last year were closed orphanage “AK Bota”, a boarding school for children with deviant behavior, people often become interested in adoption issues. But adopted, returned to their biological families children would be much more if to a whole new level was raised social service family support. Typically, a child from a dysfunctional family is in the walls of the orphanage after the deprivation of parental rights, deficiencies, gaps in education need to compensate teachers already. But this could have been avoided with more diligent work with troubled families. This convinced the participants of the “round table” held in the boarding school No. 1, which discussed the theme of child abandonment and placement of children in the family.
Head of Department for the protection of the rights of children Gulshara Costuleta believes that there is a need to focus on the socialization of children-orphans, the revitalization of the school of adoptive parents, so that, if necessary, for advice could apply to any person who is faced Continue reading
So decided to start this topic, just stumbled upon a very addicting book. share your observations and young parents will begin to properly understand their children.
Here are some quotes from the book (“1000 ways to understand your child from birth 0 to 7”, Ifergan Harry, Etienne Rick).
“the POSITION of PARENTS
As soon as the child begins to cry, the whole family comes to the excitement. Everyone is asking each other: maybe he’s hungry, maybe he’s hot or he’s wet. But in vain diaper changing, nothing helps. The baby cries louder reinforcing the anxiety of parents. The result is all on edge, worried, annoyed. There is a desire to go to the doctor. But it turns out that the child is healthy. It remains only to wander around the apartment and in the end to put the baby to bed-naturally, with a guilty conscience.
THE POSITION OF THE CHILD
Your child is not crying, he communicates! Its only a lexicon screams. From the first months of life of their repertoire is diverse: the cries of hunger – loud and persistent, because it affects his life. The chirping of satisfaction, indicating that the child is clean, fed and happy. Grunt, followed by a head Continue reading