Since childhood I was prepared for the fact that someday I will become a mother. My parents tried to lay on me all that bright, kind and reasonable that would allow me to bring up her unborn child a real Man. Absorbing the history of grandmothers, mothers, aunts, older sisters, I was, as it seemed to me then, mentally prepared for her purpose as suddenly.
I must admit, I am not a coward, and it never has been, but the news about the pregnancy threw me, to put it mildly, in a slight daze. Frantically trying to collect will in a fist (and thoughts – in a bunch), I locked myself for a whole day in his room and was going to “think” of what is happening. Don’t think anything I was really happy, and a child conceived in love, but as it turned out, psychologically I was absolutely not prepared for the fact that my life is forever changed. Will laugh, but I was afraid of even the most minor changes, which were pictured in the imagination so vividly, as if they already happened. Now, as time passes, many of them seem to me to be sheer stupidity, but in order to realize this, I had a long way to go. It was hard, and alone, it seemed almost impossible, but, as often happens, came from an unexpected side. Thanks to the advice of a psychologist, books and conversations with Continue reading
A rough outline of the conversation:
1. The compliance regime of the day — an important prerequisite for successful learning of the child.2. Parental control over the homework with students.3. Typical mistakes of parents in the educational work of children at home. Parent help children in their educational work goes in three directions.
Parents organize the mode of the day students, checking homework, teach the children independence. The teacher must convince parents of the need to adhere to routines. Compelling examples of” shows that adherence helps the child to cope with academic stress, promotes health, protects the nervous system from overwork. 20% of schoolchildren in poor health is a major cause of underachievement in the elementary grades.
When planning academic work of a student and his other responsibilities at home, free lessons for parents it is important to keep in mind that everything has to be allotted a certain time. Of course, sometimes you have to ask a daughter or son to help in some way, when this help is needed, regardless of your usual daily routine. But this cannot always be done, regardless of what Continue reading
Since the very young age, it is very important to teach a child to understand, to listen and to respect nature. We are all very fine, but strong thread tied to nature. Rupture of relations with nature leads to excessive urbanization – immersion only in the urban environment, to emptiness, to the misunderstanding of nature, to neglect her. As a result, the person does not receive from nature with much needed energy .
What is the difference between a man and a child? In principle no, but the child can be left alone with a babysitter.
If a child is engaged in nanny, then on her shoulders rests the duty is not just to walk with your child and teach the child to love and understand nature. Will see what we can recommend the nanny or parents – how to teach your child to love nature:
– Walk your child in the courtyard – use every opportunity to go with a child there where plenty of nature – in square, Park, forest. If possible – go with the child often on the nature .
There is nothing more hostile to the child than his mother. – Assuming further that any woman exactly is a mother first, we should recognize female infantilism a symptom of extreme degeneration. – Meanwhile, as the “ideal man” is only “eternal child”.
– Teach your child from the very young age to listen to the sounds: the rustle Continue reading