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Kid stealing: entertainment or lifestyle?

For example, a child taking someone else’s toy, does so in accordance with their wishes. This spontaneous outburst: why not just take it without asking any thing and not to play – these are internal arguments of the baby. Children because of age is difficult to control those sudden emotions. But if the child is taking someone else’s thing, often not aware that thereby causes a damage to another person, an adult understands this. There is even such a point of view that stealing is a hidden form of aggression. Through the assignment of another man asserts itself, experiencing the pleasure of stealing from achieving some success.

Another reason that compels people to steal, is the desire for collecting, when you steal everything that is bad, and even those things that are naturally there.

Painful urge to steal is called kleptomania (Greek: “klepto” – kidnapped, “mania” madness). Continue reading

The Nature and structure of aggression in domestic and foreign literature

Parents become unbearable, quarrelling with the child and with each other because of his education ( M. Mead “Child development”( )). And in this case, when raising children in an atmosphere of constant quarrels, fights, misunderstandings in the family the child is cultivated and enhanced by their inability to contain immediate emotional reactions, anxiety, conflict. Infected irritability adults, children carry it on his / her immediate environment – peers. And, I want to repeat that in the younger preschool age children “adults act as carriers of models of action and relationships in the world” (B. alcone( )). And, of course, at this age in the first place such samples are parents.

The impact of family management on the assimilation of the aggressive behavior of children.

The issues of family education and the influence of family relationships on the child have been developed in the framework of the psycho-pedagogical approach (K. D. Ushinsky, A. S. Makarenko, V. A. Sukhomlinsky, E. A. Arkin, A. N. Leont’ev, A. V. Zaporozhets, N. And.Lisin, V. K. Capirlo, etc.).

The authors dealing with this issue assign an important role of early experience of raising a child in a specific cultural environment, family traditions and emotional background of the relationship Continue reading

Bad habits in children at school

As you know, habits are good and bad. All good habits of children parents consider its merit, and in the poor blaming the street, friends and, of course, school. You can often hear as a mother complains that her son was a good, sweet boy, but I went to school not to learn: constantly arguing, with all the quarrels, trying to offend. Grieving moms in this situation it is clear – we want to see in their children only the best quality. The more a shame when you have these qualities we try to instill.

But is it so much to be frightened by bad habits?

First, any habit is basically a need. Therefore to fight it by prohibitions and punishments often simply impossible.

Secondly, bad habits parents often consider those that don’t like them. Actually, the division habits good and bad is very relative.

Adults understand that when it comes to their own “oddities”. But to children, we tend to be more demanding.

Thirdly, the emergence of habits and inclinations are largely due to their personalities and upbringing in early childhood, so “bad” example – though the streets, though the school – not so terrible for the one who thanks to the parents and immediate environment from infancy learned what Continue reading

Why is the child crying?
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How to teach your child to brush their teeth
Pediatric dentists are convinced that the child is able to properly and thoroughly clean your teeth by about eight years. But to impart skills on the oral hygiene is necessary…

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How to deal with the "bad influence" on the child?
"My son is not very sociable, the group made friends with a boy who has problems with the neuroscience, behavior, probably some problem in the family. My child is now…

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