As a boy to raise a man
Women can often hear the regret that today’s boys lack male parenting, and as a result lack of male parenting men do not manifest themselves in a masculine way.
This is a huge however, only are we ready for such education, including whether women themselves to make difficult the norms of male parenting, education like men? The belief “Men don’t cry” is a required part of men’s education. I think this is a good believe that it should be applied with discernment and intelligence.
Itself to cry, do not be ashamed and not harmful. Good to cry from joy, to cry at the funeral, where appropriate and customary. But in other situations where children and women can cry, men do not. Men don’t cry, because for them it is usually pointless, and to be boys, we have a strong and reasonable people.
This is not all know, but for men crying is pointless. For women it’s different: if the woman mount, and she cried, she usually becomes easier, woman crying helps to cope with emotional pain. While the men have all wrong, their grief and their pain are not crying eases, no.
Women believe in it with difficulty, but it’s true – tears from men not easier. If a man against his tears, they cause him protest and additional internal stress. Continue reading
As you know, habits are good and bad. All good habits of children parents consider its merit, and in the poor blaming the street, friends and, of course, school. You can often hear as a mother complains that her son was a good, sweet boy, but I went to school not to learn: constantly arguing, with all the quarrels, trying to offend. Grieving moms in this situation it is clear – we want to see in their children only the best quality. The more a shame when you have these qualities we try to instill.
But is it so much to be frightened by bad habits?
First, any habit is basically a need. Therefore to fight it by prohibitions and punishments often simply impossible.
Secondly, bad habits parents often consider those that don’t like them. Actually, the division habits good and bad is very relative.
Adults understand that when it comes to their own “oddities”. But to children, we tend to be more demanding.
Thirdly, the emergence of habits and inclinations are largely due to their personalities and upbringing in early childhood, so “bad” example – though the streets, though the school – not so terrible for the one who thanks to the parents and immediate environment from infancy learned what Continue reading
Children’s fairy tale – this is much more than a fascinating story for kid. Through the tale, the child learns, learns to distinguish between good and evil, the imagination and the ability to empathize… the Role of tales in emotional and psychological development of the child – are enormous. Not so long ago appeared a new trend in psychology – therapy. Treatment of the tale helps children to cope with inner fears and insecurities, to become bolder and stronger. The therapy helps adults… The choice of a fairy tale that parents will read the child should be treated carefully, based on the age of the child, his psychological characteristics.
The role of fairy tales in the development of the baby
Usually parents start reading to children tales fairly early, when the baby is not yet able to understand the meaning of the story and he likes to listen to the pleasant voice of mom or dad. At an early age the baby is often distracted from the story, can’t concentrate for longer than a few minutes. But in three or four years the child becomes interested in the story itself, the description of the fairy-tale hero, the motives behind his actions. As every three to four years, the child enters the age of “the world”: it all interesting, all I want to know, taste, touch… At this time the main task of parents – Continue reading