How to establish a relationship with the mother
Very often there are situations when two most people can't find understanding. You need time to understand how to build relationships with my mother not to commit further mistakes. Mom…

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Bad habits will save sports sections and groups
It is in the school, according to many parents, teenagers learn bad habits, make friends with the "bad old classmates", they adopt bad behavior. Of course, to blame only the…

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Bad habits that hinder your happiness
Bad habits, including gnawing nails, common in many children. Unfortunately, this bad habit does not pay enough attention, hoping that "all will pass with age". Bitten nails , is, first…

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Sand war or children’s greed

So we graduated to playing in the sandbox. And, of course, faced with the very serious problem of joint games – the “sand war”. This is the problem child of greed.

In our yard the kids very much, and of different ages. So you have to deal with very different situations. Here we will talk today.

Let’s start with the question: “greed”

The issue of “child of greed” is beginning to worry the parents when their child is about 1.5 years.

During this period, the baby begins a new round of psychological development: an awareness of oneself as an independent person. Therefore, to talk about children’s greed, and even more so to call her baby “greedy” in this age it is still early. After all, the child learns to realize that he himself, and his personal belongings are untouchable.

And how parents behave at this age the baby will depend on who your child will grow: greedy, generous, or not able to refuse.

Psychologists have observed that a child whose parents were violently forced to share growing up:

* begin to act contrary to the actions of adults and become greedy in the slightest, guided by the principle of “yeah, I was banned, and now I’m a big, all can and won’t let nobody”

* can’t say no to others. After all, at a time Continue reading

From a boy to raise a man

As a boy to raise a man

Women can often hear the regret that today’s boys lack male parenting, and as a result lack of male parenting men do not manifest themselves in a masculine way.

This is a huge however, only are we ready for such education, including whether women themselves to make difficult the norms of male parenting, education like men? The belief “Men don’t cry” is a required part of men’s education. I think this is a good believe that it should be applied with discernment and intelligence.

Itself to cry, do not be ashamed and not harmful. Good to cry from joy, to cry at the funeral, where appropriate and customary. But in other situations where children and women can cry, men do not. Men don’t cry, because for them it is usually pointless, and to be boys, we have a strong and reasonable people.

This is not all know, but for men crying is pointless. For women it’s different: if the woman mount, and she cried, she usually becomes easier, woman crying helps to cope with emotional pain. While the men have all wrong, their grief and their pain are not crying eases, no.

Women believe in it with difficulty, but it’s true – tears from men not easier. If a man against his tears, they cause him protest and additional internal stress. Continue reading

Bad habits in children at school

As you know, habits are good and bad. All good habits of children parents consider its merit, and in the poor blaming the street, friends and, of course, school. You can often hear as a mother complains that her son was a good, sweet boy, but I went to school not to learn: constantly arguing, with all the quarrels, trying to offend. Grieving moms in this situation it is clear – we want to see in their children only the best quality. The more a shame when you have these qualities we try to instill.

But is it so much to be frightened by bad habits?

First, any habit is basically a need. Therefore to fight it by prohibitions and punishments often simply impossible.

Secondly, bad habits parents often consider those that don’t like them. Actually, the division habits good and bad is very relative.

Adults understand that when it comes to their own “oddities”. But to children, we tend to be more demanding.

Thirdly, the emergence of habits and inclinations are largely due to their personalities and upbringing in early childhood, so “bad” example – though the streets, though the school – not so terrible for the one who thanks to the parents and immediate environment from infancy learned what Continue reading

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