All parents naturally want the child was smart, healthy, well-mannered, quiet. Just not everyone realizes that the child is basically trying to take their cue from their parents, trying to be like them and copy their model of behavior. The children receive from parents, not only those features that are transmitted genetically, but also a great influence on the formation of their character is the family education. Therefore, in the first place, to start nurturing with yourself.
To properly educate a child is difficult, and children, in this case, become adult the exam of life. The children are both advantages and disadvantages of their parents. But the disadvantages need to fight, and then in life get better. It will be very important to understand that only the weed itself grows, and cultural plant needs in work and love. How much time you need to invest in their children to grow up as worthy citizens.
The family influence on child rearing
The most important people in the life of the unborn child will be the people who raise him. Therefore, to learn the qualities of character he’ll be raising his family. The child will absorb the reactions and attitudes of their parents, to try to be loved and accepted by them. And it is the adoption of family and love will be initially, to nurture and to give Continue reading
For anybody not a secret that our age is rapid. Perhaps that is why young parents, fearing to be late, hurry immediately after the birth of the baby to plan his future and solve the following problems: how old to sit with the child at home, whether to give him in a manger, whether to hire a nanny, what age do I have to invite specialists in early education of the child, which school to give to learn which universities will be worthy to receive the child after the end of the 11th grade. The above problems are not far-fetched, they have overcome almost all moms and dads, grandmothers and grandfathers. Solving them, it is difficult to consider many variables that make up our lives. All parents, trying to plan in advance and facilitate the child’s life, somehow believe that their child will be a genius: it will grow by leaps and bounds, possibly, will show musical ability, intellectual or artistic talent, brilliantly graduate…
However, everything in life, unfortunately, is much harder and more prosaic, and not always our dreams come true. But whatever it was, before almost all young parents face the question: to teach or not to teach the child? And most importantly, where to begin? A year, two, three?
There are many views on the problem of early child development: some Continue reading
Children’s fairy tale – this is much more than a fascinating story for kid. Through the tale, the child learns, learns to distinguish between good and evil, the imagination and the ability to empathize… the Role of tales in emotional and psychological development of the child – are enormous. Not so long ago appeared a new trend in psychology – therapy. Treatment of the tale helps children to cope with inner fears and insecurities, to become bolder and stronger. The therapy helps adults… The choice of a fairy tale that parents will read the child should be treated carefully, based on the age of the child, his psychological characteristics.
The role of fairy tales in the development of the baby
Usually parents start reading to children tales fairly early, when the baby is not yet able to understand the meaning of the story and he likes to listen to the pleasant voice of mom or dad. At an early age the baby is often distracted from the story, can’t concentrate for longer than a few minutes. But in three or four years the child becomes interested in the story itself, the description of the fairy-tale hero, the motives behind his actions. As every three to four years, the child enters the age of “the world”: it all interesting, all I want to know, taste, touch… At this time the main task of parents – Continue reading