“Alenka — good, good girl. But if something is not on it, it immediately begins to scream. This habit she had recently. What to do with it, I’ll never know?” “Three summer months the girl had grandparents in the village. Came back and started. Yells on occasion and without. Morning till evening, and hear her cries and lamentations. Why third put a spoonful of sugar when she asked two. She knows that I need to clean up their books. And all the shouting, screaming. People will listen, God knows what you will think!” The habit of screaming, arguing his innocence, is produced in children gradually. From day to day, from month to month they formed the belief that if they just ask, calmly state your requirements and wishes, it will not lead to the desired result.
Perhaps this belief arose because the adults are too long to impose upon the child his will. Perhaps, some of them quite successful in using this technique, that is, talking in a raised voice, not too restrained in the expression of emotions. The child is the same as a curved mirror that reflects what is happening in exaggerated form. He’s just a mimic us, and it seems Continue reading
Error modern parents – ‘s ambivalent attitude to the child, the lack of clear rules of parenting and permissiveness. Kids quickly learn how to manipulate parents and other relatives for the sake of obtaining the desired and allowed in the course of a variety of tricks: tears, tantrums, aggression, etc. as a result of improper training of the little monsters grow adults Infante, who will be for many years parents to use for their own benefit. Let’s see how well you nurture the baby. Perhaps he is already showing the traits needed and it is time to take urgent measures?
The child presents himself most of the time
You are busy all the time at work and time on the education does not remain. The child plays and sometimes doesn’t behave in the best way. Instead of curbing bad behavior – you give the kid whatever he wants for the sake of your own peace of mind. Thus, the child learns from an early age about proper manipulation of parental feelings. As a means of control parents he is likely to use tantrums and aggression.
Child – a family center
All the needs of your baby instantly ride, only the child to Express irritation. Grandparents, aunts and uncles – all are happy to serve the whims of the crumbs. Moreover, Continue reading
In the modern world looks at the relationship in the pair have become more democratic than ever before. And while most of the spouses are of the same generation (the age difference is 10 years or less), a little surprise for someone a big age difference couples.
This topic is of special interest to the public and is often discussed in the circle of psychologists, in magazines and on talk shows.
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A look into the past
Several centuries ago the ratio of steam from one generation and those who have age difference of 20 years or more, was the opposite of the current situation.
The norm was considered a marriage in which the husband could fit my wife with fathers or even grandfathers. Sometimes, the age difference is 30 years old!
To support a family was considered a great responsibility, so only after a man has lived a decent life, earned some equity and reputation in the society, he made the decision to marry. In this situation, the choice was in favor of young brides, can give birth to healthy children.
When choosing a husband or wife was watching in the first place not on the compatibility for the age difference, and the viability and status Continue reading