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Sand war or children’s greed

So we graduated to playing in the sandbox. And, of course, faced with the very serious problem of joint games – the “sand war”. This is the problem child of greed.

In our yard the kids very much, and of different ages. So you have to deal with very different situations. Here we will talk today.

Let’s start with the question: “greed”

The issue of “child of greed” is beginning to worry the parents when their child is about 1.5 years.

During this period, the baby begins a new round of psychological development: an awareness of oneself as an independent person. Therefore, to talk about children’s greed, and even more so to call her baby “greedy” in this age it is still early. After all, the child learns to realize that he himself, and his personal belongings are untouchable.

And how parents behave at this age the baby will depend on who your child will grow: greedy, generous, or not able to refuse.

Psychologists have observed that a child whose parents were violently forced to share growing up:

* begin to act contrary to the actions of adults and become greedy in the slightest, guided by the principle of “yeah, I was banned, and now I’m a big, all can and won’t let nobody”

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Parents Can love all their children equally Unequal slices of the heart

Children should be loved and multiplied. Even the President of the country already is aware about the problem of the demographic situation.

To move this issue in the context of a particular family means to have a second, third, etc. child to not fail the people of the Russian land. However, when a child in one family, and the love of parents is directed at him fully. But if children, according to the call of instinct, the call of the President, and just love, becomes greater than one, the situation is changing.

I noticed several times the same picture: next door milf, middle-aged woman, accompanies her to school two twins boys for ten years at his brother. The boys really look the same. Hairstyles, height, shoes. Even the jackets are completely similar. Only one of them a woman kissing passionately, with love, smiles at him and whispers something in your ear. And here’s another – same externally – obyazivaet otherwise. Cool look, sluggish forced kiss, more like a faint touch of lips. Farewell type “Study hard!” said he haughtily, not whispering gently in the pink abalone, as the first child. From the difference in the attitude of a mother to his two children looks are striking, although the latter apparently stamped!

Probably almost every person, man or woman, Continue reading

Husband and wife: the Golden mean responsibilities

First of all, I want to note that marriage in Islam is a sacred and legal contract between a man and a woman, establishing the rule of law, sanctity and mutual responsibility of their family relationship, accepting each other as husband and wife, by mutual decision for the common life according to the teachings of Islam.

Both must be aware of their duty to God and responsible to each other in all aspects of their relationship. The main purpose of Muslim marriage act – the implementation of peace and mercy between the spouses, and to achieve this ultimate goal, there are certain rights and obligations of husband and wife.

When choosing a life partner, first and foremost, you need to be guided by piety, it includes: kindness and justice, compassion and love, sympathy and attention, patience and goodwill. That is the message of Holy Quran and Sunnah of our beloved prophet (peace and the mercy to him from Allah and His blessings). The prophet said: “the Best Muslim is the one who is best to his family.” In addition, he says, “. and the most blessed joy in life is a righteous wife.”

The role of the husband in the family is based around the moral principle that it is the sacred duty before Allah treats his wife Continue reading

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