Parents become unbearable, quarrelling with the child and with each other because of his education ( M. Mead “Child development”( )). And in this case, when raising children in an atmosphere of constant quarrels, fights, misunderstandings in the family the child is cultivated and enhanced by their inability to contain immediate emotional reactions, anxiety, conflict. Infected irritability adults, children carry it on his / her immediate environment – peers. And, I want to repeat that in the younger preschool age children “adults act as carriers of models of action and relationships in the world” (B. alcone( )). And, of course, at this age in the first place such samples are parents.
The impact of family management on the assimilation of the aggressive behavior of children.
The issues of family education and the influence of family relationships on the child have been developed in the framework of the psycho-pedagogical approach (K. D. Ushinsky, A. S. Makarenko, V. A. Sukhomlinsky, E. A. Arkin, A. N. Leont’ev, A. V. Zaporozhets, N. And.Lisin, V. K. Capirlo, etc.).
The authors dealing with this issue assign an important role of early experience of raising a child in a specific cultural environment, family traditions and emotional background of the relationship Continue reading
Error modern parents – ‘s ambivalent attitude to the child, the lack of clear rules of parenting and permissiveness. Kids quickly learn how to manipulate parents and other relatives for the sake of obtaining the desired and allowed in the course of a variety of tricks: tears, tantrums, aggression, etc. as a result of improper training of the little monsters grow adults Infante, who will be for many years parents to use for their own benefit. Let’s see how well you nurture the baby. Perhaps he is already showing the traits needed and it is time to take urgent measures?
The child presents himself most of the time
You are busy all the time at work and time on the education does not remain. The child plays and sometimes doesn’t behave in the best way. Instead of curbing bad behavior – you give the kid whatever he wants for the sake of your own peace of mind. Thus, the child learns from an early age about proper manipulation of parental feelings. As a means of control parents he is likely to use tantrums and aggression.
Child – a family center
All the needs of your baby instantly ride, only the child to Express irritation. Grandparents, aunts and uncles – all are happy to serve the whims of the crumbs. Moreover, Continue reading
First of all, I want to note that marriage in Islam is a sacred and legal contract between a man and a woman, establishing the rule of law, sanctity and mutual responsibility of their family relationship, accepting each other as husband and wife, by mutual decision for the common life according to the teachings of Islam.
Both must be aware of their duty to God and responsible to each other in all aspects of their relationship. The main purpose of Muslim marriage act – the implementation of peace and mercy between the spouses, and to achieve this ultimate goal, there are certain rights and obligations of husband and wife.
When choosing a life partner, first and foremost, you need to be guided by piety, it includes: kindness and justice, compassion and love, sympathy and attention, patience and goodwill. That is the message of Holy Quran and Sunnah of our beloved prophet (peace and the mercy to him from Allah and His blessings). The prophet said: “the Best Muslim is the one who is best to his family.” In addition, he says, “. and the most blessed joy in life is a righteous wife.”
The role of the husband in the family is based around the moral principle that it is the sacred duty before Allah treats his wife Continue reading