As a boy to raise a man
Women can often hear the regret that today’s boys lack male parenting, and as a result lack of male parenting men do not manifest themselves in a masculine way.
This is a huge however, only are we ready for such education, including whether women themselves to make difficult the norms of male parenting, education like men? The belief “Men don’t cry” is a required part of men’s education. I think this is a good believe that it should be applied with discernment and intelligence.
Itself to cry, do not be ashamed and not harmful. Good to cry from joy, to cry at the funeral, where appropriate and customary. But in other situations where children and women can cry, men do not. Men don’t cry, because for them it is usually pointless, and to be boys, we have a strong and reasonable people.
This is not all know, but for men crying is pointless. For women it’s different: if the woman mount, and she cried, she usually becomes easier, woman crying helps to cope with emotional pain. While the men have all wrong, their grief and their pain are not crying eases, no.
Women believe in it with difficulty, but it’s true – tears from men not easier. If a man against his tears, they cause him protest and additional internal stress. Continue reading
Toy – it is a tool of psychological, emotional and physical development of the child. It helps the child to prepare for adult life through play activity, using toys. In the course of game actively develops imagination, memory, thinking, interpersonal skills, perseverance, honed speech function, motility, the ability of concentration and more.
You cannot underestimate the impact of toys on the formation of child’s personality.
If parents perceive the surrounding world is hostile, dangerous, and their children will be as well to perceive it, they will see what their parents, but childish. Look, what part of toys for Your child to be rifles, pistols, guns, knives, swords and so on. If their number exceeds 30%, you need to understand that You train the fighter form in your child’s negative attitude, the idea that aggression and assault are the main attributes of a modern adult human. Since childhood, using these toys You’re just telling him what to shoot, defend, attack, that is necessary to kill someone. Rude, but it is. Moreover, the weapon is not only for boys but also for girls, though of course less. Parents often underestimate Continue reading
Very often parents are wondering about what to tell children about sex education. In this article you will be able to find the answer to your questions on this topic.
During adolescence your child should know the basic information about:
1. the changes that occur during puberty in the body;
3. sexually transmitted diseases;
4. contraceptive methods;
5. the main and the first signs of pregnancy.
In addition, you should discuss with your child the theme of exaggerated and ostentatious sexiness, which offers pornographic products. You should explain to the child about Masturbation and what teenager does not necessarily demonstrate sexual activity with other people. Also need to discuss the topic of “perfect” shape and appearance, which promoted commercial advertising.
One of my friends got pregnant at young age and gave birth to a child. When he turned a year, she learned that she was pregnant again and is already in the fourth month. The girl came to me for advice, and I asked her how she could do such a thing. After all, she’s only giving birth to one child has already learned of her second pregnancy. At quite a late period.
This young mother said that parents absolutely did not undergo sex education for girls. She is 16 years had no idea Continue reading