The Nature and structure of aggression in domestic and foreign literature
Parents become unbearable, quarrelling with the child and with each other because of his education ( M. Mead "Child development"( )). And in this case, when raising children in an…

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Pretty frequent question that parents ask the English teacher.
We know that many parents want to help their children but often don't know how. Here are some questions that often concern parents. I hope that these tips will be…

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Sand war or children's greed
So we graduated to playing in the sandbox. And, of course, faced with the very serious problem of joint games – the "sand war". This is the problem child of…

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Sex education for girls

Very often parents are wondering about what to tell children about sex education. In this article you will be able to find the answer to your questions on this topic.

During adolescence your child should know the basic information about:

1. the changes that occur during puberty in the body;

2. sexuality;

3. sexually transmitted diseases;

4. contraceptive methods;

5. the main and the first signs of pregnancy.

In addition, you should discuss with your child the theme of exaggerated and ostentatious sexiness, which offers pornographic products. You should explain to the child about Masturbation and what teenager does not necessarily demonstrate sexual activity with other people. Also need to discuss the topic of “perfect” shape and appearance, which promoted commercial advertising.

One of my friends got pregnant at young age and gave birth to a child. When he turned a year, she learned that she was pregnant again and is already in the fourth month. The girl came to me for advice, and I asked her how she could do such a thing. After all, she’s only giving birth to one child has already learned of her second pregnancy. At quite a late period.

This young mother said that parents absolutely did not undergo sex education for girls. She is 16 years had no idea Continue reading

I’m afraid

Since childhood I was prepared for the fact that someday I will become a mother. My parents tried to lay on me all that bright, kind and reasonable that would allow me to bring up her unborn child a real Man. Absorbing the history of grandmothers, mothers, aunts, older sisters, I was, as it seemed to me then, mentally prepared for her purpose as suddenly.

I must admit, I am not a coward, and it never has been, but the news about the pregnancy threw me, to put it mildly, in a slight daze. Frantically trying to collect will in a fist (and thoughts – in a bunch), I locked myself for a whole day in his room and was going to “think” of what is happening. Don’t think anything I was really happy, and a child conceived in love, but as it turned out, psychologically I was absolutely not prepared for the fact that my life is forever changed. Will laugh, but I was afraid of even the most minor changes, which were pictured in the imagination so vividly, as if they already happened. Now, as time passes, many of them seem to me to be sheer stupidity, but in order to realize this, I had a long way to go. It was hard, and alone, it seemed almost impossible, but, as often happens, came from an unexpected side. Thanks to the advice of a psychologist, books and conversations with Continue reading

Computer games for children

What is a virtual world? What are the consequences of the child’s Hobbies computer game? Computer games games role-playing compares a practicing psychologist and educator.

Child and computer game

Some will vote “for”, referring to the fact that computer games contribute to the development of the child. However, “developing character” computer games — just another myth. That develop these games? Reaction speed, attention? Yes. And what does this have to the goals of education? Of course, if we reduce education to the development of mental processes, then the computer quite this helps. Then don’t grumble, if the output corresponding to the product with the developed reaction rate. If the goal of education is understood as cultivating spiritual maturity, what does the rate of reaction?

It is, of course, not about the dangers of computer which is really necessary in our lives. No, we are talking about the abuse, about the transformation tool, technical tools in the subject of dependency and addiction.

Dependence on any subject of passion (especially from PC) is called additive syndrome. I will not dwell on clinical cases of computer addiction (blurred vision, General physical development, dystonia). Incidentally, the famous case of stroke Continue reading