Parents become unbearable, quarrelling with the child and with each other because of his education ( M. Mead “Child development”( )). And in this case, when raising children in an atmosphere of constant quarrels, fights, misunderstandings in the family the child is cultivated and enhanced by their inability to contain immediate emotional reactions, anxiety, conflict. Infected irritability adults, children carry it on his / her immediate environment – peers. And, I want to repeat that in the younger preschool age children “adults act as carriers of models of action and relationships in the world” (B. alcone( )). And, of course, at this age in the first place such samples are parents.
The impact of family management on the assimilation of the aggressive behavior of children.
The issues of family education and the influence of family relationships on the child have been developed in the framework of the psycho-pedagogical approach (K. D. Ushinsky, A. S. Makarenko, V. A. Sukhomlinsky, E. A. Arkin, A. N. Leont’ev, A. V. Zaporozhets, N. And.Lisin, V. K. Capirlo, etc.).
The authors dealing with this issue assign an important role of early experience of raising a child in a specific cultural environment, family traditions and emotional background of the relationship Continue reading
As you know, habits are good and bad. All good habits of children parents consider its merit, and in the poor blaming the street, friends and, of course, school. You can often hear as a mother complains that her son was a good, sweet boy, but I went to school not to learn: constantly arguing, with all the quarrels, trying to offend. Grieving moms in this situation it is clear – we want to see in their children only the best quality. The more a shame when you have these qualities we try to instill.
But is it so much to be frightened by bad habits?
First, any habit is basically a need. Therefore to fight it by prohibitions and punishments often simply impossible.
Secondly, bad habits parents often consider those that don’t like them. Actually, the division habits good and bad is very relative.
Adults understand that when it comes to their own “oddities”. But to children, we tend to be more demanding.
Thirdly, the emergence of habits and inclinations are largely due to their personalities and upbringing in early childhood, so “bad” example – though the streets, though the school – not so terrible for the one who thanks to the parents and immediate environment from infancy learned what Continue reading
Toy – it is a tool of psychological, emotional and physical development of the child. It helps the child to prepare for adult life through play activity, using toys. In the course of game actively develops imagination, memory, thinking, interpersonal skills, perseverance, honed speech function, motility, the ability of concentration and more.
You cannot underestimate the impact of toys on the formation of child’s personality.
If parents perceive the surrounding world is hostile, dangerous, and their children will be as well to perceive it, they will see what their parents, but childish. Look, what part of toys for Your child to be rifles, pistols, guns, knives, swords and so on. If their number exceeds 30%, you need to understand that You train the fighter form in your child’s negative attitude, the idea that aggression and assault are the main attributes of a modern adult human. Since childhood, using these toys You’re just telling him what to shoot, defend, attack, that is necessary to kill someone. Rude, but it is. Moreover, the weapon is not only for boys but also for girls, though of course less. Parents often underestimate Continue reading