So we graduated to playing in the sandbox. And, of course, faced with the very serious problem of joint games – the “sand war”. This is the problem child of greed.
In our yard the kids very much, and of different ages. So you have to deal with very different situations. Here we will talk today.
Let’s start with the question: “greed”
The issue of “child of greed” is beginning to worry the parents when their child is about 1.5 years.
During this period, the baby begins a new round of psychological development: an awareness of oneself as an independent person. Therefore, to talk about children’s greed, and even more so to call her baby “greedy” in this age it is still early. After all, the child learns to realize that he himself, and his personal belongings are untouchable.
And how parents behave at this age the baby will depend on who your child will grow: greedy, generous, or not able to refuse.
Psychologists have observed that a child whose parents were violently forced to share growing up:
* begin to act contrary to the actions of adults and become greedy in the slightest, guided by the principle of “yeah, I was banned, and now I’m a big, all can and won’t let nobody”
* can’t say no to others. After all, at a time Continue reading
“Alenka — good, good girl. But if something is not on it, it immediately begins to scream. This habit she had recently. What to do with it, I’ll never know?” “Three summer months the girl had grandparents in the village. Came back and started. Yells on occasion and without. Morning till evening, and hear her cries and lamentations. Why third put a spoonful of sugar when she asked two. She knows that I need to clean up their books. And all the shouting, screaming. People will listen, God knows what you will think!” The habit of screaming, arguing his innocence, is produced in children gradually. From day to day, from month to month they formed the belief that if they just ask, calmly state your requirements and wishes, it will not lead to the desired result.
Perhaps this belief arose because the adults are too long to impose upon the child his will. Perhaps, some of them quite successful in using this technique, that is, talking in a raised voice, not too restrained in the expression of emotions. The child is the same as a curved mirror that reflects what is happening in exaggerated form. He’s just a mimic us, and it seems Continue reading
You have a baby boy. Here it grows and grows, learns, communicates, meets, goes to school, he formed a character, is the development of certain skills, and you notice changes in his behavior – new habits. This can be both beneficial and harmful habits of children. Negative – in any case you need to fight.
However, do not rush, first you need to know why habits emerge, and then to find methods of dealing with them.
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Where there are habits in children?
Some baby habits are laid in the womb, but most are acquired.
Among them are the following:
the shuffling of feet;
jerking on the chair;
picking your nose;
repetition of words-parasites;
frequent slavyana etc.
Sometimes even innocent picking his nose or thumb sucking may develop into something more serious like a malicious whims. One of the main causes of both good and bad habits is the instinct of imitation. It is therefore very important to watch out for their behavior and talk about it with their relatives.
For example, if the baby’s father has the ability to constantly scratching the back of his head or picking your nose, then there is nothing Continue reading