As a boy to raise a man
Women can often hear the regret that today’s boys lack male parenting, and as a result lack of male parenting men do not manifest themselves in a masculine way.
This is a huge however, only are we ready for such education, including whether women themselves to make difficult the norms of male parenting, education like men? The belief “Men don’t cry” is a required part of men’s education. I think this is a good believe that it should be applied with discernment and intelligence.
Itself to cry, do not be ashamed and not harmful. Good to cry from joy, to cry at the funeral, where appropriate and customary. But in other situations where children and women can cry, men do not. Men don’t cry, because for them it is usually pointless, and to be boys, we have a strong and reasonable people.
This is not all know, but for men crying is pointless. For women it’s different: if the woman mount, and she cried, she usually becomes easier, woman crying helps to cope with emotional pain. While the men have all wrong, their grief and their pain are not crying eases, no.
Women believe in it with difficulty, but it’s true – tears from men not easier. If a man against his tears, they cause him protest and additional internal stress. Continue reading
Since childhood I was prepared for the fact that someday I will become a mother. My parents tried to lay on me all that bright, kind and reasonable that would allow me to bring up her unborn child a real Man. Absorbing the history of grandmothers, mothers, aunts, older sisters, I was, as it seemed to me then, mentally prepared for her purpose as suddenly.
I must admit, I am not a coward, and it never has been, but the news about the pregnancy threw me, to put it mildly, in a slight daze. Frantically trying to collect will in a fist (and thoughts – in a bunch), I locked myself for a whole day in his room and was going to “think” of what is happening. Don’t think anything I was really happy, and a child conceived in love, but as it turned out, psychologically I was absolutely not prepared for the fact that my life is forever changed. Will laugh, but I was afraid of even the most minor changes, which were pictured in the imagination so vividly, as if they already happened. Now, as time passes, many of them seem to me to be sheer stupidity, but in order to realize this, I had a long way to go. It was hard, and alone, it seemed almost impossible, but, as often happens, came from an unexpected side. Thanks to the advice of a psychologist, books and conversations with Continue reading
Dear friends! who faced or knows. after her divorce from Italian parent, the court leaves the child? automatically with his father, an Italian? or is it mother-nagradnoi Italy? A child is born in Italy, his Italian citizenship.
Up to several years (8-9 years max) ago children left mother, I guess, in 99,99%.
In connection with the new policy of equal rights and opportunities, as well as changes in the social position of children began to leave in a divorce and fathers, of course in a rather small “dose”. Is also practiced and joint affidamento, i.e. 50/50.
Mother, if she wants to keep the child, should NOT be Kompromat. deeds, somehow, abbandono dei minori, “bad” behavior, the use of a substance. drugs. Not to let the ex-husband to think that she can take the child abroad. If you (or anyone out there) in this case, all the court does not suspect. there is nothing to fear. Money should be dad.
I think Natalie knows about this problem solely by hearsay. I sued for child and for me to say,if the father is determined not to give Continue reading