For example, a child taking someone else’s toy, does so in accordance with their wishes. This spontaneous outburst: why not just take it without asking any thing and not to play – these are internal arguments of the baby. Children because of age is difficult to control those sudden emotions. But if the child is taking someone else’s thing, often not aware that thereby causes a damage to another person, an adult understands this. There is even such a point of view that stealing is a hidden form of aggression. Through the assignment of another man asserts itself, experiencing the pleasure of stealing from achieving some success.
Another reason that compels people to steal, is the desire for collecting, when you steal everything that is bad, and even those things that are naturally there.
Painful urge to steal is called kleptomania (Greek: “klepto” – kidnapped, “mania” madness). Continue reading
So we graduated to playing in the sandbox. And, of course, faced with the very serious problem of joint games – the “sand war”. This is the problem child of greed.
In our yard the kids very much, and of different ages. So you have to deal with very different situations. Here we will talk today.
Let’s start with the question: “greed”
The issue of “child of greed” is beginning to worry the parents when their child is about 1.5 years.
During this period, the baby begins a new round of psychological development: an awareness of oneself as an independent person. Therefore, to talk about children’s greed, and even more so to call her baby “greedy” in this age it is still early. After all, the child learns to realize that he himself, and his personal belongings are untouchable.
And how parents behave at this age the baby will depend on who your child will grow: greedy, generous, or not able to refuse.
Psychologists have observed that a child whose parents were violently forced to share growing up:
* begin to act contrary to the actions of adults and become greedy in the slightest, guided by the principle of “yeah, I was banned, and now I’m a big, all can and won’t let nobody”
* can’t say no to others. After all, at a time Continue reading
You have a baby boy. Here it grows and grows, learns, communicates, meets, goes to school, he formed a character, is the development of certain skills, and you notice changes in his behavior – new habits. This can be both beneficial and harmful habits of children. Negative – in any case you need to fight.
However, do not rush, first you need to know why habits emerge, and then to find methods of dealing with them.
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Where there are habits in children?
Some baby habits are laid in the womb, but most are acquired.
Among them are the following:
the shuffling of feet;
jerking on the chair;
picking your nose;
repetition of words-parasites;
frequent slavyana etc.
Sometimes even innocent picking his nose or thumb sucking may develop into something more serious like a malicious whims. One of the main causes of both good and bad habits is the instinct of imitation. It is therefore very important to watch out for their behavior and talk about it with their relatives.
For example, if the baby’s father has the ability to constantly scratching the back of his head or picking your nose, then there is nothing Continue reading