Parents become unbearable, quarrelling with the child and with each other because of his education ( M. Mead “Child development”( )). And in this case, when raising children in an atmosphere of constant quarrels, fights, misunderstandings in the family the child is cultivated and enhanced by their inability to contain immediate emotional reactions, anxiety, conflict. Infected irritability adults, children carry it on his / her immediate environment – peers. And, I want to repeat that in the younger preschool age children “adults act as carriers of models of action and relationships in the world” (B. alcone( )). And, of course, at this age in the first place such samples are parents.
The impact of family management on the assimilation of the aggressive behavior of children.
The issues of family education and the influence of family relationships on the child have been developed in the framework of the psycho-pedagogical approach (K. D. Ushinsky, A. S. Makarenko, V. A. Sukhomlinsky, E. A. Arkin, A. N. Leont’ev, A. V. Zaporozhets, N. And.Lisin, V. K. Capirlo, etc.).
The authors dealing with this issue assign an important role of early experience of raising a child in a specific cultural environment, family traditions and emotional background of the relationship Continue reading
As you know, habits are good and bad. All good habits of children parents consider its merit, and in the poor blaming the street, friends and, of course, school. You can often hear as a mother complains that her son was a good, sweet boy, but I went to school not to learn: constantly arguing, with all the quarrels, trying to offend. Grieving moms in this situation it is clear – we want to see in their children only the best quality. The more a shame when you have these qualities we try to instill.
But is it so much to be frightened by bad habits?
First, any habit is basically a need. Therefore to fight it by prohibitions and punishments often simply impossible.
Secondly, bad habits parents often consider those that don’t like them. Actually, the division habits good and bad is very relative.
Adults understand that when it comes to their own “oddities”. But to children, we tend to be more demanding.
Thirdly, the emergence of habits and inclinations are largely due to their personalities and upbringing in early childhood, so “bad” example – though the streets, though the school – not so terrible for the one who thanks to the parents and immediate environment from infancy learned what Continue reading
Very often parents are wondering about what to tell children about sex education. In this article you will be able to find the answer to your questions on this topic.
During adolescence your child should know the basic information about:
1. the changes that occur during puberty in the body;
3. sexually transmitted diseases;
4. contraceptive methods;
5. the main and the first signs of pregnancy.
In addition, you should discuss with your child the theme of exaggerated and ostentatious sexiness, which offers pornographic products. You should explain to the child about Masturbation and what teenager does not necessarily demonstrate sexual activity with other people. Also need to discuss the topic of “perfect” shape and appearance, which promoted commercial advertising.
One of my friends got pregnant at young age and gave birth to a child. When he turned a year, she learned that she was pregnant again and is already in the fourth month. The girl came to me for advice, and I asked her how she could do such a thing. After all, she’s only giving birth to one child has already learned of her second pregnancy. At quite a late period.
This young mother said that parents absolutely did not undergo sex education for girls. She is 16 years had no idea Continue reading